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Starting college
Starting your first semester
at college can be both an exciting and challenging experience.
However, students and their parents can survive the sometimes difficult
adjustment.
Most high school seniors are
reluctant to leave their old friends and face entering the "real
world". The fears of starting over and adjusting to a new way
of life are very scary. The important thing to remember is that
this is an opportunity to explore new experiences and lasting
relationships.
For the beginning student:
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It's okay to feel homesick,
lonely, and scared during those first weeks on campus.
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Bring your favorite
things from home; the things that make you feel comfortable and safe
in your new surroundings.
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Be patient.
Remember it
takes time to develop new friends and close relationships. Sometimes
this doesn't occur until your second semester.
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Adjust to your new
environment by staying at school for the first few weekends. Don't rush home, allow
yourself time to "break in" to your new living
arrangement. Invite your family to visit you.
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Talk with a student
advisor or school counselor if you're really feeling down. You
may even find a friend with some of the same concerns.
Most of all -- have a great
first year!
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